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Have Sex is a phrase that describes physical connection that leads to sexual pleasure, release and gratification. Making Love is all of this, but also emphasizes the deep emotional connection, affection and shared bond that develops between caring lovers. While making love is also to do with the state of mind, having sex is more about the physical relation. Comparison chart Have Sex Make Love About "Have Sex" is a phrase that describes physical connection that leads to sexual pleasure, release and gratification. "Making love" is all of this, but also emphasizes the deep emotional connection, affection and shared bond that develops between caring lovers. Partner With beloved or anyone else With beloved Emotion Emotions not necessarily involved if you are in an uncommitted relationship. Emotions involved, often more pleasurable due to the fact that you are pleasing the person that you love. Act Sexual act Sexual and emotional act Rel...

A MAN AUTOMATICALLY ALTERNATES BETWEEN NEEDING INTIMACY AND AUTONOMY. For example, in the beginning of his relationship Jeff was strong and full of desire. His rubber band was fully stretched. He wanted to impress her, fulfill her, please her, and get close to her. As he succeeded she also wanted to get closer. As she opened her heart to his he got closer and closer. When they achieved intimacy he felt wonderful. But after a brief period a change took place. Imagine what happens to the rubber band. The rubber band becomes limp. Its power and stretch are gone. There is no longer any movement. This is exactly what happens to a man's desire to get close after intimacy has been achieved. Even though this closeness if fulfilling to a man, he will inevitably begin to go through an inner shift. He will begin to feel the urge to pull away. Having temporarily fulfilled his hunger for intimacy, he now feels his hunger to be independent, to be on his own. Enough of this needing another ...

Men are like rubber bands. When they pull away, they can stretch only so far before they come springing back. A rubber band is the perfect metaphor to understand the male intimacy cycle. This cycle involves getting close, pulling away, and then getting close again. Most women are surprised to realize that even a man loves a woman, periodically he needs to pull away before he can get closer. Men instinctively feel this urge to pull away. It is not a decision or choice. It just happens. It is neither his fault nor her fault. It is a natural cycle. WHEN A MAN LOVES A WOMAN, PERIODICALLY HE NEEDS TO PULL AWAY BEFORE HE CAN GET CLOSER. Women misinterpret a man's pulling away because generally a woman pulls away for different reasons. She pulls back when she doesn't trust him to understand her feelings, when she has been hurt and is afraid of being hurt again, or when he has done something wrong and disappointed her. Certainly a man may pull away for the same reasons, but he wil...

Many of us strive for the perfect house, the perfect relationship, the perfect body, or the perfect career, but is it really a good thing? “Nobody’s perfect, but perfectionists want to be that person who is,” says Gordon Flett, PhD, professor of psychology at York University in Toronto and specialist in the role of perfectionism in psychopathology. All that pressure gets exhausting, and may lead to chronic stress, anxiety, depression, and lack of self-acceptance, he says. When your inner control freak takes over, here’s how to let it go. FOUR (4) REASONS OF IMPERFECT 1. KEEP YOUR FOCUS Having things “just right” may seem like a good thing, but striving for perfection can actually hurt our ability to accomplish our goals, Flett says. In fact, he says there is no strong link between perfectionism and higher achievement. When we’re trying to be perfect, instead of focusing on the task, we get derailed and lose focus because we’re too worried about making a mistake. Solution: Set...

Stress alone does not explain the longevity gap If there are any men left who still believe that women are the weaker sex, it is long past time for them to think again. With respect to that most essential proof of robustness. The power to stay alive: Women are tougher than men from birth through to extreme old age. The average man may run a 100-meter race faster than the average woman and lift heavier weights. But nowadays women outlive men by about five to six years. By age 85 there are roughly six women to every four men. At age 100 the ratio is more than two to one. And by age 122 the current world record for human longevity, the score stands at one-nil in favor of women. So why do women live longer than men? One idea is that men drive themselves to an early grave with all the hardship and stress of their working lives. If this were so, however, then in these days of greater gender equality, you might expect the mortality gap would vanish or at least diminish. Yet there...

The All Progressives Congress, APC, has officially picked James Abiodun Faleke, the lawmaker representing Ikeja Federal Constituency in the House of Representatives as its deputy governorship candidate for Kogi State, North-Central Nigeria. He has carefully built his political career on the ideals and objectives of progressive politics anchored on the people-oriented, welfarist politics of the indefatigable leader of progressive politics in Nigeria today, Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu. Right from his sojourn into politics during the days of the Alliance for Democracy (AD); moving on to the Action Congress (AC); and then to the Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN); and now to the All Progressives Congress (APC), the politics of Faleke have remained the same: commitment and development of people’s welfare, total loyalty to the ideals and objectives of the party and determination and will to achieve success in any given endeavour. When he was elected Chairman of Ojodu Local Council Developme...

Early life Abubakar Bukola Saraki was born on 19 December 1962 to the family of Olusola Saraki, a senator (1979 – 1983) and a one time Senate Leader of the Federal Republic of Nigeria and his mother Florence Morenike Sarak Education He attended King's College, Lagos, from 1973 to 1978, and Cheltenham College, Cheltenham, London from 1979 to 1981 for his High School Certificate. He then studied at the London Hospital Medical College of the University of London from 1982 to 1987, when he obtained his M.B.B.S (London). Medical and banking career He worked as a Medical Officer at Rush Green Hospital, Essex, from 1988 to 1989. He was a Director of Societe Generale Bank (Nig) Ltd from 1990 to 2000. Political appointments In 2000, President Olusegun Obasanjo appointed Saraki as Special Assistant to the President on Budget. During his tenure as Special Assistant to President on Budget, Saraki initiated the Fiscal Responsibility Bill. Saraki also served on the Economic Policy Coordinatio...

Dearest Mother, you guided me and gave me your boundless love. On your birthday I wish you much peace and joy. May your day and year be filled with blessings, and be as wonderful as you.

Before you marry a man, predict his future, to predict his future find out what he spends his money on today -his priorities in spending

'I'm walking in power, I'm walking in miracle, I live a life of favour, I know who I am! 'really? Are you sure? It's not by singing o! Think!

Before you marry a lady, predict her tendencies, to predict her tendencies, pay attention to her reaction to what you spend on

Before you marry a lady, predict her tendencies, to predict her tendencies, pay attention to her reaction to what you spend on

Before you marry a lady, predict her tendencies, to predict her tendencies, pay attention to her reaction to what you spend on

Before you marry a lady, predict her tendencies, to predict her tendencies, pay attention to her reaction to what you spend on

Prosperity is the state of your soul based on the fulfillment of your destiny

You control the future by the quality of your thought today.

My name is no more Patience but now mama Peace because I believe that without peace, there will be no more women, no more children and no more health sector.

PDP is the messiah, President Goodluck is the messiah

Friday is a day where momentous events took place so that people can attain the mercy of Allah

Amaechi is my son, I cannot fight him and I cannot kill him

Nigerians are good people. They just need a leader who will show them that it pays to be honest and fair

Will you let someone sleep with your spouse in your presence for 10million Naira?

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Most politicians are keen on acquiring so much money, but money is not everything

Nigerians are not making good use of the social media. A lot of people and businesses are on social media but sometimes they are using it for the wrong reasons

Celebrate with me the birthday of my lovely Father Alhaji Billiaminu Kotun on his 85th years on earth 24th August, 2015. Daddy I wish you more health, happiness and joy in life. You are the best Daddy on earth

Maturity is something you develop by conscious efforts, its not about age, race, educational qualification, or exposure

Learning to love yourself is one of the greatest gift of all.

Life is less of what you have but more of who you're. #Event

A good life its a life that is lived for PURPOSE not for PEOPLE

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It struck me that both men are, in different ways, pioneers and embodiments of the hopes of the Black race

No matter what some ladies wear, even if it is a maxi free gown, their backside would still be noticed

Champagne or Sparkling wine, a toast is a toast

How did you react if you discover your parent is dating your in-law?

man leaves hospital with Police escort after 17 girlfriends show up.

"Russian builds house with 12,000 bottles of champagne”

Our secret recipe can’t be copied. Only shared.

Our secret recipe can’t be copied. Only shared.

You can be happy in your life at all times. If you simply avoid two things: Comparing and Expecting Life will be more BEAUTIFUL..!!!

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Our secret recipe can’t be copied. Only shared.

Schooling is for a certification while education is for transformation, universal knowledge and wisdom to grow.

The Law of Superior Knowledge: know 80 percent of something and 20 percent of everything.

Education must reflect in your conduct and actions. Education bring about superior thinking.

Somewhere, someone is looking for someone exactly like you.

Don't just make an impression, make a difference, your purpose is to improve other people not just show off what or who you are.

Schooled people GET jobs, educated people CREATE jobs. Wisdom, knowledge & understanding in life is superior to certificates & good grades.

The most popular and fastest growing religion in Nigeria? FOOTBALL!

The god of football remains the most celebrated, appreciated, influential & worshipped today. So many worship..sorry viewing centres around.

#Event The passion, attention and devotion to this god of football has transcend the passion and devotion to God almighty!#wetindey

Our secret recipe can’t be copied. Only shared.

Be thankful for the bad things in life. They open your eyes to see the good things you weren't paying attention to before.

Our secret recipe can’t be copied. Only shared.

Our secret recipe can’t be copied. Only shared .

I saw you smile, and it changed my entire day.

Better three hours too soon than a minute too late.

A setback is not the end but a pit-stop to repair; Failure is meant to change your approach, not break your spirit, Failure is meant to motivate you, not make you quit.

Do not give up; the beginning is always the hardest.

A secret to happiness is letting every situation be what it is instead of what you think it should be, and then making the best of it.

“I am amazed at the people who take care of themselves by eating food out of fear of dying, yet do not protect themselves from sins out of fear of the Fire”.

Become your lover’s sex slave for a day. Let them order you around and tell you what they need you to do in bed and out of bed.

Every day do something that will inch you closer to a better tomorrow.

“Be like the flower that even gives fragrance to the hand that crushes it”.

I pledge to Nigeria my country.To remove Jonathan and Sambo.To be gentle, loyal on election, To vote Buhari with all my strength .To protect my PVC and uphold no violence and trouble, so help me God! Amen...........share if u agreed.

He who remembers death often will be content with little provisions, and he who knows that his words are among his actions, will speak little.

Deepen your faith this season and get open Heaven blessing. Good Morning Nigerian, Happy Sunday.

When you notice a guy checking you out, let him know you are onto him and you ooze confidence.

There are no secrets to success. It is the result of preparation and learning.

Father: Son, what do you want for your birthday? Son: Not that much dad, just a Radio with a Sports Car around it.

A teacher told all students to write an essay on a cricket match, all were busy writing except 1 student. He wrote “Unfortunately Due To Rain, No Match”.

Boy to gym coach: I want to impress cute girl I am going to meet in three days, which machine should I use? Coach: Use the ATM machine outside the gym!

Wife said: I will die. Husband replied: I will also die. Wife again. Why will you die? Husband said: Because I can’t bear the excitement when you die

• Jonathan inherited 774 LGA, today he has ceded 30 to General Shekau of Boko-haram. Jonathan inherited 23 PDP Governors but he ceded 5 to opposition APC. • Jonathan inherited 4000 megawatts of electricity but we are now left with 2500 megawatts with obnoxious tariff from PHCN. • Jonathan inherited 2.4 million barrel quota from OPEC but he ceded 1 million barrels to smugglers. • Jonathan inherited a Naira value of 155 to dollar but Naira is now traded at 209. • Jonathan inherited 30% unemployment but he has doubled it to 55%. • Jonathan inherited positive AAA rating bond but JPMORGAN has rated our bond negative. • Jonathan inherited a surviving stock market but he killed the stock market. • Jonathan inherited 10% duty on tokumbo cars but he increased it to 70%. • Jonathan inherited # chibok girls but he lost them to Shekau. • Jonathan inherited a rag tag Boko Haram. He will be leaving behind a sophisticated and daring Boko Haram by May 29th 2015. • Jonathan inherited a boom...

Dad! I got married yesterday evening. I forgot to inform you. Daddy: its ok my child. But next time you should invite me.

In an Art gallery a couple see picture of a girl covered by leaf. Husband keeps watching. Wife: Can we proceed or you are waiting for a leaf to fall

PDP celebrating election postponement as victory. Tells you all you need to know about the direction of this election What difference can Six weeks make? Will it return our 30 trillion naira? Will it return our 6.8 trillion naira? Will it build our refineries? Will it bring back our girls? Will it bring back our youths, murdered by Abba Moro? Will it sanitize NNPC? Will it end Boko Haram Terrorism? Will it reduce the poverty rate? Will it add the year our children lost in the universities? Will it give us purposeful leadership? Will it restore the dying naira? Will it restore the credibility of our President at International Community? Be patient folks, we will definitely vote out Cluelessness, Incompetence and Corruption. Everyday for the thief, one day for the owner, the owner's day is here we will all. march4Buhari

Lady: So, you want to become my son-in-law? Boy: Not really, but I don’t see any other way to marry your daughter!

Different between Ignorance and Patience? When you see the mirror and you don’t laugh at yourself that is ignorance and when I look at you and I also don’t laugh, that’s called patience.